Da berapa bulan?
anak yg sulung dah berapa tahun yer?
antara ayat sentap utk sesapa yg mengandung kali ke 2,3 dan seterusnya..
Ayat nak cover :
Ahh..teraccident la...
wahhh boleh pulak ter ter yer...dah la 'ter' pastu accident plak
teraccident sampai kena tanggng sampai 9 bulan? pastu seumur hidup?
apa la salahnya jawab "rezeki Allah bagi..Syukur..ianya satu amanah.."
selalunya kalau teraccident ni sesuatu yg kita tak jangka n tak suka utk ianya berlaku..
pelik!
kenapa ianya terjadi?
PLANNING!
yaa...family planning amat pentingbg teja, selepas berkahwin terus planning nak anak berapa, jarak berapa, sampai umur berapa..
yer la teja ni kira lewat jugak la kawen, so kalau nk anak ramai ke sikit ke, kena plan la sampai umur berapa sbb risiko untuk mengandung sekarang telah meningkat ke 35 tahun ! oh....pitam
(ehek..macam la nak ramai sgt)
over tau..
apapa pun..hanya Allah yg menentukan..
tp tak salah utk merancang dahulu dan kemudian berusaha & berserah
tentang alat perancang juga terpulang kepada masing-masing..
Apa agaknya perasaan kalau anak yg dikandung itu tahu bahawa dia adalah hasil dr anak ter tak sengaja ibu bapanya?
kesian...
seperti tidak diperlukan..
kelahirannya pula tidak dirancang...
ada pula yg sesedap rasa mengata di belakang
" eh..bukan anak sulung u kecik lagi ker...ni dah mengandung lagi?
ahakss...
terpulang la kepada pasangan masing2 ..kena pandai2 la manage
apa pun yg penting JGN SUKA MENGATA org lain kelak kita sendiri yg kena..baru tau..
hah, rasa la paku buah keras itu keras atau tidak..!!
mmg dah terbukti beberapa kawan Teja begitu..
mengata org sedap kemain, tgk2 tahun depan dia lagi, dan lagi dan lagi dan lagi...
Anak - adalah rezeki ..
ada org susah dapat Anak
ada org senang dapat Anak
ada org ada Anak tp susah nk jaga
ada org takde Anak tapi ada Anak angkat
ada org dah puas usaha tapi masih belum juga ada Anak
ada org Anak ramai
ada org Anak sedikit
ada org bela Anak org lain
ada org bela Anak kucing mcm anak sendiri
ada hikmah disebalik semuanya..
Allah Maha Agung
Allah Maha Bijaksana
Allah Maha Kaya
Syukur lah !
Meh kita layan cerita ni kejap...sebagai renungan..
A worried woman went to her gynecologist and said:
'Doctor, I have a serious problem and desperately need your help! My baby is not even 1 year old and I'm pregnant again. I don't want kids so close together.'
So the doctor said: 'Ok and what do you want me to do?'
She said: 'I want you to end my pregnancy, and I'm counting on your help with this.'
The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence he said to the lady: 'I think I have a better solution for your problem. It's less dangerous for you too.'
She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request.
Then he continued: 'You see, in order for you not to have to take care of 2 babies at the same time, let's kill the one in your arms. This way, you could rest some before the other one is born. If we're going to kill one of them, it doesn't matter which one it is. There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms.'
The lady was horrified and said: 'No doctor! How terrible! It's a crime to kill a child!'
'I agree', the doctor replied. 'But you seemed to be OK with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution.'
The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point.
He convinced the mom that there is no difference in killing a child that's already been born and one that's still in the womb. The crime is the same!
'Doctor, I have a serious problem and desperately need your help! My baby is not even 1 year old and I'm pregnant again. I don't want kids so close together.'
So the doctor said: 'Ok and what do you want me to do?'
She said: 'I want you to end my pregnancy, and I'm counting on your help with this.'
The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence he said to the lady: 'I think I have a better solution for your problem. It's less dangerous for you too.'
She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request.
Then he continued: 'You see, in order for you not to have to take care of 2 babies at the same time, let's kill the one in your arms. This way, you could rest some before the other one is born. If we're going to kill one of them, it doesn't matter which one it is. There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms.'
The lady was horrified and said: 'No doctor! How terrible! It's a crime to kill a child!'
'I agree', the doctor replied. 'But you seemed to be OK with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution.'
The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point.
He convinced the mom that there is no difference in killing a child that's already been born and one that's still in the womb. The crime is the same!
bile da pandai buat family planning tu, jangan lupa plak buat financial planning.penting tu!!!nanti kalo da ter'accident' tu kan susah juga...kalo boleh bekerja ok lagi.tapi kalo da sampai xleh bekerja nanti..macam mane pula.anak2 yang masih kecik2 yang kita kata ter'accident' tadi nak bergantung kat sape plak.adus!kesiannya.jadi buatlah sesuatu agar kita sentiasa dalam keadaan merancang.Insya Allah
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